Tests & Assessments on Dating and Partner Search

Dating and looking for a partner can bring up excitement as well as fatigue, confusion, and self-doubt. This collection of self-assessments helps you understand the emotional side of the search, from dating fatigue and ghosting to attachment patterns and readiness for marriage. Each test is designed to help you reflect on how you show up in the dating process and what patterns might be holding you back or guiding you well. These assessments are not a substitute for professional guidance, but they can help you enter conversations, whether with a friend, a match, or a therapist, with more self-awareness. Use them to date with a little more clarity and a lot less second-guessing.

  • Arranged Marriage

    A test exploring the emotional experience of navigating an arranged marriage.

  • Dating Fatigue

    A self-assessment for dating fatigue, or burnout from the search for a partner.

  • Dating and Mental Illness

    A test exploring the emotional experience of dating while managing a mental health condition.

  • Breadcrumbing in Romantic Relationship

    A self-assessment for recognizing breadcrumbing, or being kept on an inconsistent romantic hook.

  • Worried That You Are Being Ghosted?

    A test for recognizing whether you are being ghosted and how it's affecting you emotionally.

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  • Heartbreak -Breakup Distress Scale

    The Breakup Distress Scale, which measures the emotional intensity of a recent heartbreak.

  • Retroactive Jealousy

    A self-assessment for retroactive jealousy, or distress about a partner's past relationships.

  • Is Marriage for Me?

    A self-assessment that helps you reflect on your readiness and desire for marriage.

  • Attachment Style Self-Assessment Questionnaire

    A questionnaire that identifies your attachment style and how it shapes your closest relationships.

  • Intimacy Issues Questionnaire

    A questionnaire that looks at emotional and physical intimacy challenges in relationships.

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