Retroactive Jealousy

Retroactive Jealousy

A therapist-led 4-session support group for individuals struggling with retroactive jealousy — recurring thoughts, comparisons, insecurity, or distress about a partner's past relationships, experiences, or history. Learn practical tools to manage obsessive thinking, reduce emotional distress, and build greater trust and security in your relationship.

Starts 21st July, 2026

4 weekly Zoom sessions | Every Tuesday at 8:00 PM IST | 75 minutes

Confidential | Small group, 6–8 people

Group Type : Support Group

Includes 3 Free Peer Calls*

Led by Therapist

Regular price Rs. 3,000.00
Regular price Sale price Rs. 3,000.00
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  • Constantly Thinking About Your Partner's Past

    For those who find themselves repeatedly thinking about, imagining, or comparing themselves to a partner's previous relationships or experiences.

  • Seeking Reassurance but Never Feeling Settled

    If you frequently ask questions, seek reassurance, or revisit conversations but still feel anxious or distressed.

  • Jealousy Affecting Your Relationship

    For individuals whose jealousy is creating conflict, emotional distance, insecurity, or stress in their relationship.

  • No Formal Diagnosis Required

    You do not need a diagnosis to join. If thoughts about your partner's past are causing distress and affecting your well-being or relationship, you are .
    welcome here.

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Goals of the Group

• Understand what retroactive jealousy is and why it can feel so consuming
• Identify personal triggers, comparison patterns, and intrusive thoughts
• Reduce compulsive reassurance-seeking, checking, or questioning behaviours
• Build emotional regulation skills when jealousy gets activated
• Understand how insecurity, attachment styles, and self-worth contribute to retroactive jealousy
• Learn practical tools to interrupt obsessive thought loops
• Strengthen trust, security, and emotional intimacy in relationships
• Connect with others experiencing similar struggles and reduce shame

Glimpse of the regime

Session 1: Understanding Retroactive Jealousy

• What is retroactive jealousy and how does it show up?
• Understanding intrusive thoughts, comparison, and emotional triggers
• Why reassurance often provides temporary relief but keeps the cycle going
• Exploring personal experiences and identifying patterns
• Activity: Mapping your retroactive jealousy cycle

Session 2: Insecurity, Attachment, and Self-Worth

• Understanding the role of insecurity and self-esteem
• Exploring attachment styles and fear of abandonment or inadequacy
• Why your partner's past feels threatening
• Identifying personal narratives and comparison traps
• Activity: Recognizing the stories you tell yourself about your partner's past

Session 3: Managing Triggers and Obsessive Thought Loops

• Recognizing common triggers and escalation patterns
• Tools for handling intrusive thoughts and mental images
• Reducing compulsive questioning, checking, and reassurance-seeking
• Emotional regulation techniques for moments of activation
• Activity: Creating a personalized trigger management plan

Session 4: Building Trust, Security, and Moving Forward

• Shifting focus from your partner's past to your present relationship
• Building trust, emotional intimacy, and self-confidence
• Creating healthier responses to future triggers
• Developing a long-term plan for managing retroactive jealousy
• Closing reflection: What would a more secure relationship look like for me?

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If you plan to join more than one group this year, this is the most cost-effective way to do it.

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FAQs

What are SoulUp Groups?

At SoulUp, you'll meet people who get what you're going through and might be living some of the same realities. People looking for extraordinary conversations, just like you.

✔️ Small group, 6-8 people

✔️ Every meeting led by a world-class facilitator

✔️ Weekly 75-minute online video sessions

How is confidentiality maintained in Groups?

Confidentiality in Support Groups is maintained using secure meeting links and enabling waiting rooms to control participant access. Participants are bound by mutual confidentiality clause within the group. and sessions are not recorded without explicit consent.

Are Group sessions done on video?

Yes, all group sessions are conducted on video via Zoom.

While participants are allowed to use pseudonyms - they need to be on video to make the most of the session.

What is SoulUp's refund policy on Groups?

1. After you have registered for the group and you'd like to opt out:
- Full refund if you cancel 30 days before the group start date.
- 50% refund if you cancel 16-30 days before the group start date.
- No refund if you cancel 0-15 days before the group start date.

2. If SoulUp cancels a group, we will refund the entire signup fee.

3. If SoulUp reschedules a group by more than 2 weeks, we will inform you and give you an option to opt out and get a full refund.

4. SoulUp reserves the right to remove participants from a group if found unsuitable to the group. In such cases participants are given the option of claiming the pro-rata amount left as a refund or using it for another service on SoulUp.

Can I use multiple discounts while signing up for a group?

You can use only 1 type discount while signing up for a group. Cash backs cannot be coupled with discounts either.

* Are FREE Peer calls available to everyone who signs-up for this group?

You can book 3 Peer calls for FREE as part of signing up for this group.

Please note: This is only available to first-time participants of a SoulUp group (those trying a SoulUp group for the first time).

How long has SoulUp been around?

SoulUp was founded in 2022 by Punita Mittal and Mahak Maheshwari - a team of IIT Delhi and IIT Bombay with more than 20 years of combined healthcare experience. SoulUp is redefining mental health through groups that are not only effective but also fun, social, and challenging.

More about Support Groups & Therapy Groups:

1. What is an online therapy or support group?

Online therapy groups or support groups are structured, therapist-led sessions where participants gather virtually to discuss and work on specific mental health or personal growth topics.

These groups offer a supportive environment and help members learn coping strategies and relevant techniques from the therapist. Participants offer each other encouragement, share advice, and provide emotional support, helping one another feel less isolated.

2. What benefits can I expect from joining an online therapy group or support group?

Participants in online therapy groups often experience improved mental health, a greater sense of connection, and enhanced coping skills. Group therapy provides structured guidance from a therapist, which can lead to valuable insights and personal growth.

3. How does online group therapy compare to one-on-one therapy?

One-on-one therapy is personalized, focusing solely on your needs, which can be ideal for in-depth, private work with a therapist.

Online group therapy, however, offers a sense of community and shared experience. In addition to learning from the therapist, members get to connect with others facing similar challenges. Group settings provide diverse perspectives and reduce isolation, which participants find valuable.

4. Are online groups effective?

Yes, studies show that online groups can be as effective as in-person groups. The online format provides convenience and accessibility while offering the same structured therapeutic benefits, especially for those who prefer the comfort of their home environment.

5. Will I have to share my personal journey in the group?

Sharing is encouraged but never forced. Participants are free to share only what they feel comfortable with, and many find that opening up gradually is natural and helpful for their own growth.

6. How do online therapy groups or support groups handle difficult emotions that arise?

The therapist leading the group is trained to manage challenging emotions. They provide tools and strategies for coping, helping participants process feelings safely.

7. Can I attend online therapy groups if I’m already in individual therapy?

Yes, many people find that group therapy superbly complements individual therapy, providing additional insights and social support, thus accelerating their healing. Also, users often join group therapy for a topic that they are not focusing on in their individual therapy sessions. Often, therapists themselves recommend their clients to group therapy for a specific area of their life.

8. How do I know if a support group is right for me?

If you’re looking for shared experiences and emotional support rather than structured therapeutic guidance, a support group may be ideal. Otherwise, consider a therapy group for a more structured approach.

You can also join more than one group if you feel it will benefit you, especially if each group focuses on a different aspect of your mental health journey.